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Originally Posted by Angela  I am having a very weird moment, cuz I see that everything I have written to you here in this thread was really meant for my future self: the self that would be going through what I've gone through for the last couple of days. Thanks so much for posting this thread and listening so generously, because what I've said to you is the perfect thing for me to read now, for myself. Freaky!! |
I think that's known as the predestination paradox
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I'd think it can seem weird to when you don't *want* to apply the advice you give, to yourself (just in general, here).
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Originally Posted by Angela By the way, I don't doubt that there are general differences between men and women other than the obvious biological ones. I only want to "debunk" the idea that all men or women are this or that, and to go into a relationship insisting on believing that you "know" what to expect, just because of their gender, is a mistake that leads to No Freedom (for either of you) and therefore No Love. |
Which is something I agree with, and I suppose I asked the question from both genders' perspectives, as in "Can Women really Trust Men?" too.