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GreenLife · 03-31-2008, 12:38 AM

Hi. I have a problem and I don't know how to solve it.
When I alone I control all my minds, write daily and weekly plans and comprehend every minute of my life. But when I start to tell with somebody this control always disappears, so it's very difficult to me to keep in mind all my plans in this situation. In other words, it's difficult to protect minds from socium. I work hardly if I alone but I spend my time not so productively in socium.
I found one way to reduce this influence: when I have a talk with somebody I imagine him as "alien", who has minds and feels which are absolutely not similar to mine. Thus I put myself in mental loneliness and it helps me, however I spend many forces for it, therefore I again lose the control over time. How I can get out from this?
Thanks. (sorry for my bad English)

03-31-2008, 12:38 AM	#1 (permalink)
GreenLife Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: oh, Russia... Posts: 8	How to be independent in a society? Hi. I have a problem and I don't know how to solve it. When I alone I control all my minds, write daily and weekly plans and comprehend every minute of my life. But when I start to tell with somebody this control always disappears, so it's very difficult to me to keep in mind all my plans in this situation. In other words, it's difficult to protect minds from socium. I work hardly if I alone but I spend my time not so productively in socium. I found one way to reduce this influence: when I have a talk with somebody I imagine him as "alien", who has minds and feels which are absolutely not similar to mine. Thus I put myself in mental loneliness and it helps me, however I spend many forces for it, therefore I again lose the control over time. How I can get out from this? Thanks. (sorry for my bad English)