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Originally Posted by {aspiring_to_clarity}  Well then as dancer said, why do you have a desire to be around people who you know lie to you? What is their good (or bad) opinion really worth? |
Well i find it petty to end a friendship over lying. I mean,everyone lies,to some extent. I want to keep these friends because i've had them for YEARS. It's not like they're some throwaway fair weather friends. I don't let go of friends easily,because it's so hard for me to make friends,i dont want to let the ones i have slip away.
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It feels bad when breakups happen. It feels bad when we lose friends. But right now you are just thinking about how horrible it is and how you must figure it out and get them back. Have you stopped at all to think that maybe your life would actually be better without them in it? People who lie to you, delete your messages behind your back and blow you off? What in you makes you think you need that kind of person in your life? These are just questions that I would ask myself.
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Well like i said before,they've been good friends for many years. All this that's been happening has mostly been recently. It's just a blink of an eye compared to the time we've been good friends. I guess i'm not picky with friends because i know how hard they are to come by. I am more accepting of my friends' flaws,especially lately,after trying to become a better person. Just seems like the right thing to do,i guess.