I believe that my social performance gets better and better everyday.
I've always had it, but I didn't know/ didn't care enough to turn it on back in the days. I was pretty quiet, not shy, just a quiet guy for most of the time in High School, and for some of the time in college. Simply because I didn't care enough to go out of my way to get to know other people. Seriously, I'm all for myself mostly, other people......they're there....but I'm here.
I was never quiet when I was a kid, I would spew nonsense from my mouth all the time. But then I grew up and realized it's better to listen and observe.
But these days I don't have fear approaching anyone. Yeah I get nervous, IF there's a really really attractive female...but it takes a lot really. Thing is, I can say to them anything, anything I want without being offensive because of charisma. Why do people give you looks, maybe you look good, but charisma plays a part as well.
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