Hey, uber. Sometimes we need a kick in the pants, don't we? But my hope is that you don't use this event to beat yourself up. There is no fault in how you've been. Just opportunity. Now that you see how you've been being and what the cost of that has been you can make a new choice. It's not really enjoyable being a victim from what I've found. It's too easy to get on a downward spiral that way as the people who really do love and care for you get so tired of trying to help. They are there loving you, but in that state you can't see it and keep grasping for more proof.
The love is inside of you, the strength, the happiness, the validity, the courage...you have it all. Just take and use what is rightfully yours.
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