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Originally Posted by Angela  If you are willing to tolerate the negativity of this person, or if you are willing to have a "close" relationship in which you avoid him as much as possible (!  ), and you're not willing to communicate what's so for you and look for an alternative that leaves you both satisfied and loving, then your first fear applies: you are creating this situation with your negative thinking. In other words, your complaint has nothing to do with him, and everything to do with you. |
I don't see why I should confront him. I didn't begin the conversation and argument, nor did I "thinkingly" wish to have it in the first place. If I ignore the hell out of him, I'm sure he'll get the same message, that I didn't appreciate him and he created his own isolation. Besides, words won't do anything. He's an extremely arrogant and stubborn man, and has a "My way or the highway" thinking about him. I yelled at him when we were having the argument, isn't that talking about it? I threw my point out there, with a little bit of anger as well.
