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Originally Posted by Angela  You probably don't talk like that, but you get the gist of what I'm saying, right? Don't make her wrong, grant her the freedom to be exactly who she is and exactly who she is not, and make your well-being your number one priority, while generating love in the conversation. |
I get ya, but it's a guy I'm talkin about. Oh well
The thing is, we're close so I can't just shut him out of my life like that. I mean, I probably could but it would take alot of work on my part to get that to happen. I think I'll just avoid him as much as possible, because I can stand him for about an hour or two. Anymore, and it gets unbearable.
The part that I can't stand is that they want to pick the choices in my life. If there's anything I've learned in my life, it's that you can't force people into decisions or situations that they don't want to be in. It pisses them off. Even if they WANT to do the thing you're trying to force, it might make them change their mind or say "Well, now I don't want to." The decision of mine that they're trying to fight is that I didn't go to College. I made my choice a long time ago not to go because it wasn't for me, and people are still trying to push me to go. I didn't want to then, and I don't want to now.
Also... the person is a little bit emotionally unstable. I believe his apology is sincere, but I think it's hard for them to stay under control sometimes. When he gets nervous, he can't help but act/think/and say nervous things.