[Rockchick26]

Originally Posted by Joely

I'm just wondering, Rockchick, have you thought about looking at your core beliefs about relationships? It sounds as though you've been through this "loving from afar" situation a fair few times, and there might be useful things you could learn about what you think deep down, subconsciously, about how relationships work, how lovable you are, and whether you can have the man of your dreams.

Yes i've been through the "loving from afar" thing 90% of the time,with the rare occurance that the feeling is actually mutual. But,if my core belief was that i can never get anyone,how did it work out those few times? I mean,it should be all or nothing.

All signs therefore mean "Go to work on yourself."

Well now i've gotten a few answers on the signs. Some people say they DO mean youre on the right track,some say they are future events that will happen,some say theyre simply the universe showing you what you are thinking about,and then like your answer some say they mean nothing or not at all what you want them to mean or think they mean. I can't believe any of these are true simply because it's impossible that they could all be right.

I would suggest, therefore, that maybe you should look into what you think about yourself deep down, what you think about whether or not you can have a truly fabulous relationship with a guy you really want. Building that relationship with yourself, a truly deep and loving relationship, will make you shine in a way you could have any man you want.

Other people have said this too,and i keep replying,i already do know i can have this relationship! There is no reason at all why this should be impossible. I believe it with all my heart and then some.