[zkhan10]

i haven't read everyone's replies on here fully, but the person above me has a fair enough answer.
however, i believe that if you really do care about that person, regardless of anything you will always do what's best for them, as well as you, and the relationship. Use your best judgements and choice of words. Best thing to have is a positive, yet agreeable attitude to an apapropriate extent. Remember to keep your head out of the box at all times and don't let her shove words down your throat. Don't let her make you what she wants to see you as, but show her it's ok to be who you are. Or just don't let her get rubbed off on to you. Regardless of you, yourself being insecure or not, everytime she says something out of line, or puts herself down, and when you know for a fact that it's not true, remind her that we are only people.
We see(or like to) what we want to see, when we want to see.
There's no one, and nothing that can be done about it but just us realizing it oursef. We are our obstacles.
Lol sorry, if i said anything that didn't make much sense, it'd late, and i'm heading to bed.
good luck to y'all.



p.s. don't listen to all those people saying ohh dump her blah blah, and it's not your problem, and let her deal with her problems and stuff. If you care about a person enough, you'll do whatever it takes. Alotta people might disagree with me and say, that's not what love is about, and this isn't what love is about. You know, if we take everything out of it, then what DO we have left to define love as....nothing? yea meaning if there's no one, or nothing good enough to define love, then we might as well make belief that what all we know is what love is. Just because something isn't true, doesn't mean we can't believe in it. But then again, i'm not even sure this is a romantic relationship...or it is iunno. it prolly is, i'm just sleepy. k night. ....i just wrote a whole story. sigh.