It's okay RockChick, I am not offended at all by the way you perceive my words and respond to them. I deeply appreciate that you have spent the time reading what I have posted.
Namaste (spirit of God in me bows deeply (and gives a hug) to the spirit of God in you)
But this is what i've been doing,forever! Not even just with this guy,but EVERY guy i've ever liked! Since i've rarely ever physically HAD someone,i've been forced to just "share my love with them without having them physically". Basically that just means loving them from afar,only completing half the circle of love. How is this good enough? How can you truly love someone if you are the only one doing the loving,and it's all in your fantasies,not real life?
True Love is giving. The full circle of Love, is in your own opened heart.
Truly I say to you, the objects of your love in the physical world, are no more or less real than the objects in your imagination or your dreams.
Decouple your Love from the object, and allow simply the Love itself.
Decouple the idea of your SoulMate from the images you perceive with the physical senses.
Now I ask you to contemplate, what it is that I am mirroring to you.
You are a mirror to me also, and I thank you deeply for what you have shown me.
~ In Love ~