[Rockchick26]

Originally Posted by wolfgang

If this rock guy is a reflection of some inner state, like some are saying, what does that say about your inner state? Say he is a soulmate. And the reason he showed up as an unavailable has meaning. What does that mean about your inner state?

Well not every "sign" i got was showing he was unavailable. I dont know exactly how "signs" show my inner state though,because most of them were visions of my future with him,or seeing his name somewhere. And in some of my dreams about him,we were together.

I know you think you know him. All you know is you think you would like him.

Yeah...but like i've also said,whenever two people start dating,thats still all they know about them,and sometimes not even that! I am only just asking for a chance to find out what this could become,i'm not saying he is the best man on this planet,i am saying i want to find out the reason for all these "signs" and i want to know what would come of being with him. Either i need to learn a lesson or he is the one i'm meant to be with. I just want to know!

I know you say you know some specifics about him and you have these "signs". So why the signs? To show you something about yourself. To help you realize what you are doing with your thoughts and attractions and where you are placing your energy. This thread is choke full of that kind of energy. I mean that kind of energy that is latched onto some idea or thoughts about the way it should be for you. It's all to show you how you are able to fall in love with someone you haven't even talked to, how powerful your mind of thoughts is, how imagination can produce signs.

Well i'm realizing that now,but isnt that a good thing? If the mind can create all this,why wouldn't it create the actual thing i'm thinking about?! Obviously i've gotten really good at it LOL *rational brain interjects-Yes i know,you cant use law of attraction on an ACTUAL PERSON*

The signs could also be without you - that having something about this rock guy show up is the universe poking fun at you saying - "here's your soulmate but all he's here to do is show you how you latch on to your thoughts about soulmates and signs". I not kidding. Signs are this way too. They are messages that kind of play with you to help you see how you are operating - and even tempt you into exercising your ways. The universe will say "Hey, she would like this guy so let's tempt her into her pattern of falling for an unavailable guy so her imagination can get going on this - let's send her some 'signs' that he is the one". Then once you see a sign you get to feed all this in your thoughts which of coarse the universe will pick up on and generate more of the same.

*gasp* This is horrible!! I want to cry after reading that! lol I can't believe the universe would be so cruel! Why would it give others something they focus on but to others it just rubs it in their face!?

It might be a chicken and egg issue, but usually it comes from the inner self, with a bit of imagining - and then a "sign" and then imagination gets tipped off into gear and then more signs -etc... Even then signs that seem unrelated to your conscious thoughts - are really just subconscious manifestations that pop out in the universe for you to more easily see what your subconscious thinks it wants.

So basically you're saying that anytime anyone thinks about something so much that they get signs from the universe about it,that isnt really what they want after all? Why isnt there a more practical method for this?! Why doesn't the universe give us signs pointing towards what we DO want then?! If it always knows,why cant it tell us?! Why does it have to show us what we think we want,if we dont really want it? It's misleading! And now i'm even more confused because if i dont really "want" anything that i thought i did,then i must not really want anything.

It's to hopefully bring awareness to what it is you are doing that isn't working or to expose your ego's unconscious desires so you get a chance to not set yourself up for disappointments.

Well its doing just the opposite! Why would it make you think you're on the right track (and other people have even said i was on the right track!) if its not right? To make me learn that i'm doing it wrong? That's like in school if a teacher would praise the student for getting the right answer then suddenly saying "hahaaa!!! I was just joking! You were wrong! But i'm not going to give you the correct answer!" It's just retarded!