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Originally Posted by Parthon  My first question is: Is there anything that's changed in your world that would have people behave like that? Have you changed your attitudes or expectations recently? While it looks like everyone else is shunning you, it could be a reflection of things changing in your life that are much closer to home. |
No i haven't changed anything. Its not like this all happened in the same week or month,this deal with that couple started a year ago and is now to the point where we never talk anymore. The deal with this one girl has just been the last month. But no i haven't changed anything about myself that would drive people away. Its not even all my friends,just those few. I have other friends who i'm getting closer to recently,so,its nothing i'm doing wrong or else ALL my friends would be drifting away.
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If you really loved your friends honestly, you could accept their distance, but still reach out to them with love. Right now all that is being heard is "Why are you leaving me?!? Whyyyyyy?"
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So you're saying when your best friend acts distant for no reason at all,you're supposed to just let it go and say to yourself 'oh well there goes my best friend,nice to know ya'? That,to me,sounds more selfish than wanting to keep being friends!
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Why they are distancing themselves doesn't matter at all.
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Well its kinda like,when you date someone you want to know why they dumped you so you can avoid making that mistake again. Same thing here,i dont want to lose any more friends,so i want to know what i did wrong,to prevent it from happening again. Maybe there is some bad thing i do that im not even aware of,and i'll never know if they keep making up excuses and lies!
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In fact it looks like a good time to take a good look at yourself and see what's really going on.
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Thats what i'm trying to do LOL But how can i know what i'm doing wrong if nobody will tell me?