Originally Posted by dancer
Why not ask your friends what they are feeling? You are assuming what is going on is all about you, perhaps it is something else.
I did ask them (both this girl and the other couple i mentioned). The girl said she didnt delete the message and said nothing more about it. The couple just said they've been staying home,not going out lately,but i caught them in a lie twice since then,i KNOW they still go out,so,theyre just avoiding telling me the real problem.
Do you know what was in the message from the band? Seems strange for someone to delete a message in someone else's account. Did you ask her why she deleted the message?
I explained this in my original post,maybe you missed it. yes i saw the message,cuz i went into my deleted mail and saw it there. It was the guy saying she didnt know them as well as she thought she did. And i did ask her why she deleted it and she said she didn't. But she HAD to have,because she is the only person i gave my password to,and i asked her to tell me what messages i had in there and she told me "oh its just an old one from the band,you already replied to it". (but it was a new one,that i had never read,so she was lying,because she didnt want me to read it!)