yea I've often wondered the same thing... sometimes I do think the same old "why doesn't s/he love me?" threads get a lot more play than they deserve... but then I guess everyone can relate. I did have a particular thread where I wanted more help- about wondering how to be supportive of a guy I'd been dating who's dad is dying... no one seemed to have anything to say, but maybe that was the answer I needed anyway- that there is no easy formula to communicating... I still have no idea if what I say is more helpful or hurtful, just hoping if it weren't a net positive he wouldn't keep in touch with me as well as he has, hoping he takes everything as sincerly/kindly as it is meant.
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