Originally Posted by Rockchick26
But how do you do that? Are you saying if i open up about this,me and him could have some sort of a "relationship" on another plane? Like we'll start dream sharing or something? lol I guess what i want to know is,what things would happen then,if this were to happen?
Hello again friend. Well actually, the one you are seeing in dreams and visions is your SoulMate, but I am not talking about the person that your mind has chosen to represent your SoulMate visually.
Your SoulMate is part of you, and can come to you (or be reflected to you) through any person in the world. You seem to have encountered someone in the physical world that you feel a great deal of Love for. What is happening there is that this person is serving as a mirror for your Love. They are showing you something that is inside of yourself, the Love. The Love you feel when you think of or are around this person, is coming from inside of you, not from the other person.
Please do not take this personally, but your ego is attached to the "mirror", which is getting in the way of Love. I have been there too, and it can be hard to shift your perception and release attachments to the impermanent, but once done you will be free to manifest your true SoulMate relationship in the physical world. First by opening your heart to your SoulMate inside of you (no matter what "body" your mind chooses to represent him as) and then eventually drawing into your life a perfect mirror (person) to share the physical SoulMate union with.
The problem with the "law of attraction" is that usually people are working on manifesting from a very superficial level of consciousness, the ego. This is the place that thinks "I want this, I don't like that, I like this and want things to be just like so". When searching for your SoulMate this is a dead end. The ego will never be truly satisfied with any parter you will have. This is because the ego actually will work to sabotage any real Love in a relationship because it fears annihilation.
If you want to find your SoulMate, look first within yourself. Open your heart and allow the Love to pour from you to them. You must stop looking for Love outside of yourself, for truly every time you have ever felt the feeling of True Love, it came from inside of you, not from any external source.
When your heart is open and you are allowing Love to move outwards to your SoulMate (their presence inside you/on the inner planes) then your heart will automatically draw into your life the perfect mate with which to form a SoulMate relationship with. This is the law of resonance, like attracts like. But understand that any ego beliefs you hold onto will also be reflected in any relationship you will manifest, so you have to work on constantly shifting to perceiving through the heart and not the ego. You are already experiencing this with the situation you've encountered with this man you are infatuated with. He is unavailable to you due to limiting beliefs you hold about Love.
You have to release attachment to the vehicle through which your SoulMate will manifest. Your SoulMate is not a specific person to be found outside of you.
Originally Posted by Rockchick26
If i read that right,you mean God will give me someone who is a lot like him,but not him? Ugh i wish i wasn't so stubborn about this because i never like to settle for second best,and nobody will compare to him. If God can prove me wrong,DO IT! lol I'm WAITING!
There is no second best to the Heart. There is only Love, and your SoulMate. I guarantee you that if you cast off your limiting beliefs about how Love should look and who it should be with, then you will find Love deeper and greater than you ever imagined.
God will give you what you believe in your heart, it is as simple as that. So change yourself and dissolve your limiting beliefs to change the outer circumstances.
Check out this website, you will find a lot of answers there: Things You Need to Know About Twin Flames
(TwinFlames are the same thing as SoulMates)
You are on the verge of a profound shift in consciousness, Love is the key.