Honestly right now, I don't really know where I am
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Originally Posted by Angela  But when it comes to trust, it's not about "blind" trust or believing that your beloved will never lie to you and that she should or will always love you completely. It's about eyes-wide-open trust for yourself, trust that if she lies or doesn't love you the way you think you should be loved, or if she dies or leaves you, you will be fine and you can be in love with your own life regardless of the actions and thoughts of your sweetheart, may she rest in peace. |
It's all about trusting ourselves? So do we not place *any* such trust in others then?
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Originally Posted by cylon I'm even going to go so far as to say that if she is giving you trouble, it's your fault for not spotting the signs earlier on. |
Maybe to a degree
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I don't really feel I've ever "blamed anyone" else per se, just feel like I was kicking myself in the past for not doing something about it sooner, all the opportunities I had to either be more direct or cut her out, and not realizing that there was no attraction that existed there. (But that was all a long while ago)
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Originally Posted by cylon Be the best man you can be and you will find chicks who resonate with that. |
How could you explain that sort of thinking to those who have been wanting or seeking love their entire lives, they believe they've been the best person that thyey could, but end up dying alone in the end? (hypothetically of course, as I don't know anyone personally that has)