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Originally Posted by cylon  ... having this knowledge means you must take responsibility for how you feel towards the opposite sex. You are not a victim. If you are with the wrong women who don't bring out the best in you, it is your responsibility to cut them loose and not complain or make it "their fault". |
right. on. cylon.
I love that model for a relationship when you consider that a good partner is someone with whom you encourage and support each other in being your best possible selves, while at the same time granting each other the freedom to be exactly who you are and exactly who you are not.
It sounds like a dichotomy, but it's not really.