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Originally Posted by jamestl2  OK......
I've tried following everyones replies here as closely as I can  , and the basic sense I'm getting here is that: - Men and Women are different (not just biologically, but chemically, mentally, etc. as well), and noticing those differences doesn't make you sexist or a bigot
- Women are more emotional, irrational, security-seeking, etc. than men
- Most women are not attracted to emotional men, (and vice versa with reasoning)
(Like I said, I was trying to follow it as best as I can  ) |
I think you missed the bit about how that's all crap!
But when it comes to trust, it's not about "blind" trust or believing that your beloved will never lie to you and that she should or will always love you completely. It's about eyes-wide-open trust for
yourself, trust that if she lies or doesn't love you the way you think you should be loved, or if she dies or leaves you, you will be fine and you can be in love with your own life regardless of the actions and thoughts of your sweetheart, may she rest in peace.
It's about trusting that no matter what happens, you are supported by the Universe. You are okay. And there's so much to learn from and enjoy about what you experience along the way, that the risk of pain is like tiny little ants marching across the Great Wall of China.