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Originally Posted by cylon  You can trust women, to be women. Fickle, controlled by their emotions, not really the same person from day to day. While that is frustrating at times it's also the very thing that attracts us to them. It's the polarity between man and woman. Male: strong, rational, mature. Woman: more emotional, child-like, intuitive. |
Cylon, I'm surprised you, of all people, are perpetuating that old line of crap -- "women are this, men are that, and that's that."
I think these generalizations are every bit as 'harmful' as the notion that there's a soulmate out there who will kiss it and make it all better.
My attraction to Danger Man, by the way, is not about my ability to influence him. It's about his commitment to living a life he loves, regardless of anyone else's thoughts or actions, including mine! We both have all of the qualities you listed, and if anything, I think he has more of what you call "woman" qualities and vice versa. But you know, in a relationship, that all ebbs and flows!