In my early days I had a teacher who let us do what we wanted as long it was some kind of schoolwork for a big part of the day. Most of my basic "schoolskills" I learned while I was in the mood for it because I was allowed to choose when to do what.
I also never experienced pressure under her teaching while other teachers were always demanding. When people present their goals for me as demands I put my foot on the breaks and start thinking about why I should do as they say. A teacher that express what they want from me more like wishes and tells me I can take my time will get much better results.
I implement wishes but not demands. I don't go along with terrorism. |