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Originally Posted by cylon  The part with office politics rings true for me, lol.
I'm learning to forgive but at the same time, not forget. If someone harms you, you really do need to ignore them--but how to do that without being upset with them at the same time can be a challenge.
Having a hard time enforcing my own personal boundaries while at the same time rising above situations with others--yet that very conflict creates more drama.
Yikes! Good stuff here to remind me, to just let stuff go. You don't have to get along with everyone but you also don't have to hold onto ego damage. |
Cylon, for me the solution lies in the words to the Beatles song: Let it be.
That's my mantra when I find myself in the midst of goings-on that I know are negative. Even when I know rude comments and behavior is being aimed at me I am really able to just "let it be." It's a huge relief. Besides, it only touches you if you allow it to
