Hello, I would really like to help you out. Do you have aim/msn?
First, though, I'd like to ask you where your friends and family are. Do you have regular contact with friends? If you do, talk to them about your problems. That's what friends are for, to help each other through stuff like that.
You definitely need to focus on simplifying things, in my opinion. Withdraw yourself from his needs, and focus on your own. Become independent in the relationship. Take up a new hobby, get out of the house more, and make sure you have a life that is seperate from your life with him.
Only after you've healed yourself emotionally can you decide what you truly want. He's obviously not there for you, so you have to become more self-reliant.
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