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Originally Posted by Rockchick26  . Well anyway this was all before i met him about 2 weeks ago,and when i met him,he pretty much seemed like he was trying to avoid my group and seemed irritated that we wanted to talk to him and then within a few seconds he turned around and walked away. Now that i know i cant attract HIM,why was i having these dreams/visions/signs??? If they are meaningless,then how can i trust anything anymore? |
to me that sounds like hes not interested
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Originally Posted by Rockchick26 Because i can't focus on a relationship with someone i dont know! I can't imagine being with anyone that i have never seen or met or heard,its the same concept as wanting a relationship...i only want one WHEN I know the person that i want one with. It's hard for me to imagine any vision of what i want without having someone to put into my vision. What do other people do? Imagine life with a nameless,faceless person as your partner? I cant even get excited about that,i have no desire for something if i don't know what it is first.
Well,actually,he doesnt know me,so how can it be a fact that he isnt interested in being with me? |
Do you really want a relationship?
WHY do you want one?
Is their a higher reason?( i.e not just someone tobe with so that you are not alone)
What are you willing to let go of for you to be in a relationship?
Are you willing to let go of a fantasy man for a real one?
If the answer to that is yes- what do you like about this guy so much?
is it that hes attractive and intellegent? great then just write it down: I am in a relationship with an inteligent man whom I find very attractive.
Focus on characteristics instead of a person.
And lets say it is him:
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Originally Posted by Rockchick26 That night i had a dream that i was supposed to give him my phone number but i was too shy so i went into another room |
why dont you get in touch with reality? Just make a move at this guy instead of staying in your mind- ask him out!
its a win win- if hes says yes- great, if he says no at least you will make room for something REAL.