If using "I'm ok if this doesn't happen" feels wrong then don't use it. Find something else that feels less stressful.
If you are obsessing and checking in with the status of the intention 100 times a day, well aren't you trying to micro manage it? The micro manager, in reality, is saying I don't believe it is going to get done on time or at all, and I don't trust you can do your job. Instead of assisting you in getting the job done, he just creates a whole lot of stress for you and for himself. FEAR & TRUST. Acknowledge that you might have some fear related to the intention and surrender to it. Be aware of what other thoughts come up and accept whatever it is you are feeling. Don't push it away or pretend those feelings are not there, cause it will just come back with more intensity. I've been experimenting with surrending to my negative emotions/thoughts and am experiencing positive changes. I really recommend it. Not only will you increase the chance of the intention manifesting, you also create a more relaxed and peaceful life.
Recently, I experimented with putting an intention into a pink bubble and watched it float off into the universe. I totally forgot I did it. When reading this post, I realised the intention did manifest. Try it,
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