Originally Posted by lightthecandle
I like this guy, but I can't help but feel that I'm not good enough for him. I daydream that I'm the perfect girl...for him...to the point where it is very very unhealthy. I can't focus on my schoolwork...I constantly daydream that I'm this perfect human being in my traits, prettyness, intelligence...for him. I constantly worry and hope and wish that I was perfect...for him. Its seriously making me depressed and I can't focus on my schoolwork because of it...I constantly think..."If only I was good enough..for him" help me out of my depression, please
the sad part is even though I really like him...he's just one of those guys who just wants one thing...and I am sooo not ready for that. maybe i should forget about him and move on and think about guys that will treat me right and not just look at girls like sex objects?
Well it's good that you see the constant daydreaming as unhealthy. That shows your consciousness is getting some time in your awareness. You spend a lot of time in fantasy and future, try sitting in the now. Focus on your breathing for 10 minutes between classes. Things inside will calm down and you'll get some of your focus back.