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Originally Posted by Angela I was in a seminar once with 100 other people, and we were asked to name everything that is true for everyone about sex and intimacy.
We could not come up with even one thing that was true for everyone in that room -- or even that was true for all men OR all women. Each person stood up and described what intimacy was, and all of us were astonished to hear the sheer variety of what the others had to say! |
Thank god, finally someone else says this out loud, otherwise there have been situations where I have felt extremely stupid when I had to say "please, explain what is it that you want from me! I can't guess it and I can't give it to you if I don't know what it is!" And then I get this glare like I was some 3 year old or just a very very silly person, and a sentence like "I thought it was self-evident and everyone knew these things". These situations have been driving me right up the wall many times.
Thank you!