Hey ines, You may want to start another thread with this question, if you are already married the deal has been made and some things may no longer be negotiable. You still need to communicate though, I just wouldn't approach it as a demand. I think this is a great example though of no matter how much you discuss things before hand, you may still not be prepared for what life throws at you. IMHO, I don't think whoever makes more cash should have more control. There are others ways of contributing and as long as you are both doing that it shouldn't matter. Men can let ego get in the way on this issue though. I hope you post this as new thread, I would like to see the responses to this.
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