Originally Posted by danas
instead of focusing on some guy who isnt into you, why not focus on what you really want- being in a relationship with a man who loves you and wants to be with you, and who you of course desire too.
Because i can't focus on a relationship with someone i dont know! I can't imagine being with anyone that i have never seen or met or heard,its the same concept as wanting a relationship...i only want one WHEN I know the person that i want one with. It's hard for me to imagine any vision of what i want without having someone to put into my vision. What do other people do? Imagine life with a nameless,faceless person as your partner? I cant even get excited about that,i have no desire for something if i don't know what it is first.
now you seem to be putting loads of energy into something which isnt what you want (a guy whom isnt interested in being with you)
Well,actually,he doesnt know me,so how can it be a fact that he isnt interested in being with me?