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Originally Posted by danas  instead of focusing on some guy who isnt into you, why not focus on what you really want- being in a relationship with a man who loves you and wants to be with you, and who you of course desire too. |
Because i can't focus on a relationship with someone i dont know! I can't imagine being with anyone that i have never seen or met or heard,its the same concept as wanting a relationship...i only want one WHEN I know the person that i want one with. It's hard for me to imagine any vision of what i want without having someone to put into my vision. What do other people do? Imagine life with a nameless,faceless person as your partner? I cant even get excited about that,i have no desire for something if i don't know what it is first.
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now you seem to be putting loads of energy into something which isnt what you want (a guy whom isnt interested in being with you)
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Well,actually,he doesnt know me,so how can it be a fact that he isnt interested in being with me?