Pretty good doesn't cut it, honey. You have to shoot for excellent or higher...
But, reading your second post, I don't think the problem is him. It's you. To paraphrase, you're living on another continent with no job, no friends, too much time on your hands and a sole provider of your happiness - or lack thereof - in your husband.
Yikes! How's that for putting all your eggs in one basket?
Don't take this the wrong way, but you need to get yourself a life! Take the burden of your happiness off his shoulders and put it firmly on your own. Go out. Make friends. Have adventures (no, not that kind).
If you want to have more romance in your relationship, take the lead. Do something so romantic for him that it knocks him of his feet and has him wondering how he is ever going to top that... and then try to act surprised when he does (because he will).
Don't let fate drive you, take the wheel!
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