In the way you see the world, is being an
independent woman incompatable with having a boyfriend? Like, I feel this hole, but I don't
need a man, do I? Just wondering where you're coming from.
So you're choosing, and it's becoming more conscious, that you want more intimacy in you life, both physically and emotionally... now. I say
now because I want to know if you're going into the future with the whole idea (oh god, a relationship, i don't know if I'll have time for one, what if he wants to be really serious and I don't want to be?, if I fall for him does this mean I'm co-dependant?, etc. etc.) This might not be what runs in your head, but I'm asking if you have any expectations when considering opening to relationship?
(actually this is very good for me, and I'll ask myself the same questions since I'm in the same boat as you)
There is no lack of affection or love, but just the walls we put in front of it ourselves. And we look at those walls and say what we want doesn't exist.
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Originally Posted by DQueens  How can i control other people's thoughts and impressions of me? |
Look at what your thoughts and impressions are about yourself.