Also it has to do with confidence. If you're shy and all akward when you say, want to make a funny sexual joke, people are going to sense you're not comfortable and just be like uhhhh.
But if you're just out there being ballsy and not caring what people think, it'll go over better. Even if nobody laughs, just frame it in your mind that they just don't have a good sense of humor. Now obviously you have to be a funny person for that to work, or else you're just lying to yourself.
Yeah and obviously, funny people are more interesting. How am I funny? Sarcasm and teasing are my forte. You have to be quick to get sarcasm, obviously the framing about people not having a good sense of humor would be true in that case. You can try being funny in other ways such as stories, impersonations, or being a crazy. I'm not great at telling stories, but!
Learn to be a good story teller! I'm being a hypocrite here, but I should learn. Telling a good interesting story, makes you more interesting, obviously.
I hope some of those ideas help out.
-andrew
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