 Non-Negotiables lead to Negotiables
Could it not be said that the mere act of creating a list of non-negotiables creates a counter need for the other person in the relationship to create their own list of non-negotiables?
While I thought the article was great -- I am concerned that it could be taken in almost a competitive vein -- almost like a pre-nuptual kind of thing. I think (and the article alludes to this) that understanding the core values that exist between you is the key to understanding the potential success of the relationship. |