I like the idea that people should be aware of their non-negotiables in a relationship, and that they should be addressed at some point. But I don't agree that people should
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discuss them within the first couple of dates.
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Even someone looking for a serious commitment would be freaked out if their date started grilling them on their ideas about children, parenting techniques, in-laws, and finances.
I would say things like this are better discussed after a long period together, like 6 months to a year, or more.