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Sound like your typical young person, first of all if you want to get out from where you are you have to work! Or you can live with your parents forever and completly ruin that relationship. Your parents sound like they would support you at whatever if you could muster an honest effort. If you continue sitting around complaining that this is no good that is no good that is exaclty what you'll get - crap! If your friends sit around and bitch about how all is no good, lose the friends, change your attitude! You say you want to control your life then start taking control, but remember unless you work for yourself you will have to answer to someone else whether you like it or not. If you want to work for yourself then you need some kind of work ethic and it appears you have none. so again change your attitute, successful people didn't have it land in their lap they worked hard and quite often failed a number times before it happened for them. Find the people around you that are willing to support you and use them to help you but take a look in the mirror first and decide to give an honest effort and lose the negativity. If you want something bad enough you'll find away to do it. If you continually find excusses you will fail because hey its not your fault. Dont mean tobe so harsh, but whinning will get you where you are right now!  |