Originally Posted by oberlee
It sounds to me like you're really WANTING this and are not accepting the fact that it's not working out. Hard, I know, but the more you resist what is, the more that the object of your desires gets distant.
Whats interesting is i was content with just fantasizing about him,until i saw The Secret! And then i read The Law of Attraction by Esther Hicks...then it hit me; these books came into my life to show me how to get him! (lol,how silly,i know) but i believed it. And then thats when i really pushed it into full gear because i had faith it was possible. I didnt see anything wrong with it,since i felt it was meant to be. But,since this blew up in my face a few weeks ago,i've chilled out about it,i mean i still fantasize about him and stuff but i'm trying to focus on myself now,because if everyone in here is right,and i can learn how to attract love the right way,i dont want to waste any more time on false beliefs. Even though i feel like a quitter,i feel like i'm giving up on him...i just have to keep telling myself that famous quote: "If you love something,set it free,if it comes back to you,its yours,if it doesnt,it never was." God i love that saying,but its so damn depressing! lol