Originally Posted by Rockchick26
What i would like to know is,if you get signs from the universe that this person is your soulmate,can those signs be wrong? Or am i just interpreting them the wrong way? Here's what was happening,that i was putting my total faith in being true; I barely knew who this guy was when i had a dream about him,and in the dream we were at a wedding,dancing and kissing.
Rockchick, I have been right there myself. I have had some very vivid dreams about me being in relationship with people that I either work with or barely know from somewhere. At first, I was stunned. I thought: oh crap, this has to mean something. Especially because I have had dreams that come true later on. But there never turned out to be any real life events after these dreams.
I also once met a person and knew spot-on that we are soulmates. That led me straight to romancing him, and he was entirely baffled (that was a very, very silly situation). He turned out to be my soulmate, but in an entirely different way - through him I learned a lot, but there was never even the slightest intimacy involved in our relationship.
From these mistakes I learned that I should never "expect" any relationship to happen. I should not look for it or be impatient or frustrated about it or want it to advance faster than its natural course. While there is a certain predetermination in our lives, every living human has his/her free will and that can change the actual life events greatly, and any amount of pressure from my side can alter this very gentle equilibrium for entirely different results.
And of course, I have also learned that, to receive something you want, you have to quite precisely know what it is you want first... and then completely allow it to happen in its own time and course. Not easy, not for me yet
Best wishes and love.