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Old 03-03-2008, 05:03 PM   #101 (permalink)
Vasilisa
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Originally Posted by Rockchick26 View Post
Yeah,a little,but i'm still not going to ever FULLY BE as outgoing as them,but with someone who is quiet,that is a constant motivator for me to be more open. I dont want to be the "quieter" half,i want to be the "more outgoing" half,of a couple. Or to where its equal. But i could never be happy with being with someone who is always more outgoing than me. This has happened with some friendships i've had,and i've always felt like a follower. Like people would say 'oh she'll do whatever he does" just because i'm quieter than him. I HATE that. I want to be equal or more outgoing than the person i'm with,or a friend i'm with.
You know, IMHO "outgoing" is not the same with "pushy" and "bossy".
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