I've gone through that before. With friends. After a time of separation I had changed quite a bit, gotten more confident, less submissive. But when I started hanging out with them again they still treated me like my old self and it was uncomfortable and difficult for me to get them to see I'd changed.
What happens is that you shift your vibration to a new frequency and you're no longer a match for being treated like you were at your old frequency.
For me, there were only two choices. Either they update their file on me and get with the program, or I no longer associated with them becuase they were trying to drag me back to an old vibration.
Erin Pavlina, Intuitive Counselor
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