My first question was going to be "what do you want out of this guy?" but you said you didnt know,so...hmmm LOL I would say when in doubt,don't. So don't keep seeing him if you are unsure,cuz it sounds to me like you wont want him ever again,and it isnt fair to lead him on by sleeping over at his house when he's all raring to go LOL At the same time,its hard to come straight out and tell someone that its over,when he isnt a bad guy,its just not working out. One question though,why do you say its impossible for him to understand you? How long did you date him? It sounds like the connection isnt there,the chemistry isnt there,so,i would just say "I'm sorry but i dont feel what you feel,its best we dont see each other",but i know thats hard,cuz when i was with my ex boyfriend,i didnt feel anything for him but yet i was afraid to break up,so i more or less waited for him to finally do it. Good luck with this! :-)
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