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Originally Posted by Jasmine  Rockchick if you are shy, timid and passive and your Mr Right should be unsure of himself its no wonder you’ve never met him. Someone unsure of themselves isn’t going to have the courage to approach you, and you being timid will be the same. Maybe that’s why you’re getting the desperate ones, they aren’t afraid to approach you.
By the way I used to be shy, timid and passive as well. If it is something that you want to change it is possible but it does require some work and it doesn’t happen overnight. |
Well here is where it gets interesting LOL I want a guy like that to BRING OUT my outgoingness,my openness,my agrressiveness. I dont want a guy who is outgoing because that only reinforces the fact that i am shyer than him. I want someone who is good for me,not someone who makes me painfully aware that i am shy. I open up like nothing,if i need to do it to open someone else up. By helping others,i help myself. Thats what i want. I'm like that with friends too,i tend to become friends with people who are like me,so i can push myself to open up,and i love that! Also,i can relate to a quiet,shy person more than i can relate to a loud obnoxious outgoing person.