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Originally Posted by Arboretor  Well, it is difficult to give meaningful advice without knowing much more about you. Just one thing I thought of after writing my previous post: Remember, if you continue to do things in the same way you always did, you shouldn't be surprised that you get the same results as you always got.
Try to think in totally new directions; consider possibilities you never thought of, or always believed unsuitable for you. I can't tell you *how* to do that, you have to find out yourself. |
Yeah thats what i'm realizing now,although previously i couldn't even imagine that it was up to me to attract the kind of guys i want,i just thought i either didnt get them because they just didnt like me or because i just wasn't meeting the right one yet. I was in the group of people that just "believes" it will happen,not so much that i had anything to do with it happening. I'll keep you guys posted on how i do after i work on my self esteem and after i read that book i have coming. :-)