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Originally Posted by Arboretor  What about going to the places where those guys are living? Do you HAVE to stay in your small hick town? |
Trust me i agonized over this for years. I even drew out a pros and cons list. The main reason i decided against it was because of my family. I have a 2 year old nephew and i dont want to be the wierd aunt he only sees on Christmas. Right now i babysit him every week and he loves me,i couldn't stand to be away from him and have him not remember me anymore. I visited LA last year and i came back practically begging my family to move there with me but none of them wanted to even VISIT let alone live there,and my dad said "Its easy to say you want to live someplace when you're only there for a week,but you wouldn't feel the same if you lived there." So...i guess i started to realize maybe Minnesota isnt that bad and i just had to change my perspective on it. If i have to give up my job i've been at for 17 years and give up my family and friends,i'm not sure if that's worth moving for. I know i'm blocking myself but its the kinda deal where if you change your life to fix one problem,you're still creating other problems,so you might as well have as few problems as possible.