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Originally Posted by beel  another thing i noticed is that you frequently like to say 'i honestly think i am _____' or 'i think i am ____',. why are you not simply saying 'i am _____'? your lack of doing so leads me to believe you don't really believe the things you are saying - consciously or not.
you can spend thousands of dollars and a lifetime reading self-help books, but that's looking to an external source to solve the problem. same with LOA. until you can look within yourself and recognize and/or embrace some of the things others have pointed out to you, those books won't be of much help. i would actually recommend taking a step back and re-reading your posts on this site with a critical eye as if they were posted by someone else. |
Apparently i have a hard time putting my thoughts into the correct words because i have to re-explain myself a lot LOL sorry. I dont mean to give off the impression that i feel sorry for myself...i just wonder why one person has to do more work to get a result when both people have issues. And the reason why i say "i think i am ____" is because i'm saying you guys dont think so but i do. I dont mean 'well,um,i THINK i am ___" i'm saying it more like "i know you guys dont think so but i do". Once again,my way of wording things is getting taken the wrong way LOL And i dont read self help books thinking THEY will help me,i read them thinking that they will help me to help myself.