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Originally Posted by beel  ive been reading your posts for awhile now. you need to stop worrying about finding love with a guy and start finding love within yourself and your life. i know you say/think that you love yourself, but i think its very apparent to myself and others that you have some issues to work through. the fact that you don't see those issues is an issue in and of itself. you come across as desperate, needy, and quite frankly, obnoxious. i have yet to see you take initiative in changing your perspective or expectations of the situation. |
I realize i have issues,but doesnt everyone? So youre saying in order for LoA to work,you have to be 100% mentally and emotionally healthy? And maybe i need someone to point out to me exactly how i am being desperate because i see desperate people out there and i honestly think i am nothing like them. In fact when i see desperate people doing something that reflects that,i say to myself,'i'm glad im not like him' and then i'll tell him he needs to relax about it. And the obnoxious thing...i guess i dont know the real meaning of the word then cuz to me,obnoxious is someone who talks loudly and too much and doesnt care if they hurt someone's feelings. And about your last sentence,that is why i'm here,because i wanted to learn what im doing wrong. That is why i have spent hundreds of dollars on self help books,in fact i just got home from the bookstore,i bought a book on past life regression and a workbook on self esteem,because after posting in here some people have told me i need to work on it. So i spent $20 solely because i am taking someones word for it that i need it. And i also ordered that book someone referred to me,about how to love yourself first and then the LoA will bring love to me. So i am definately trying to change and take intiative in making this work.