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Old 03-02-2008, 05:13 AM   #65 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Rockchick26 View Post
I've been told i'm just too picky so i know that's true. I could have had a million guys by now if i settled on whoever wanted me.
Fear of intimacy. Being picky is a shield that protects you from being exposed. You've set it up in your mind that you plan on being lonely a long time. It's tough, but this is the IM board. Which means, you get what you focus on. Start focusing on the good qualities in yourself, then you will meet people who have the same qualities. That's what I'm working on at least.
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