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Originally Posted by LifeFirst  Thing is
I don't know why he was talking about me or anything like that. I never brought him any trouble. I always kept quiet, kept to myself, cleaned the place whenever I can. I took out the garbage. Everything was smooth at first. We were getting along really well, we would go out together.
We were never friends or anything before we moved in, but after we moved in we got along well.
Then I don't know WHAT happened. When I heard that he was talking about me behind my back, everything changed that instant. I feel like he hates for some reason, or looks down on me. From that point on, we never did anything together anymore.
I gotten along with all my other roommates, never any problems. But this one is the devil his own self at times. |
The problem isn't your room mate or the fact (fiction?) that he's talking shiit behind your back. Which he may or may not have actually done.
The problem is your fear of confronting him about it and setting the record straight. You are creating your own hell, basically. Until you run and hide (ie: move or kick him out) or face the issue head on, you will continue to fester and fill your home with ill-will.
Since one's home is an outward reflection of one's inner self and peace, you are basically accepting this unpleasantness as your existance. Every other aspect of your life will suffer as a result.
Jennifer