Thanks a lot Erin
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Originally Posted by Erin Pavlina  1. You want a relationship, you feel you're ready. But the new guys you're meeting aren't doing it for you. So you're thinking back on the wonderful aspects of the relationship you had and remembering the positive. He pops back into your life and you WANT to believe that this time things will be different. |
Yes, that’s true
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Originally Posted by Erin Pavlina Is he still emotionally immature? Has anything changed in the last 2 months? |
Well that’s the thing- we only met for two hours, but yes he- seemed different. He was taking responsibilty, telling me how he was working on changing certain things of his behavior- not for us, but for himself (he wasn’t even talking about getting back). We were laughing at what a mess we made of our relationship. As I said, I realized how my uncertainty about us, messed it up. I realized that if I simply decide-
This is my man- (and I believe I can do that) and stop comparing him with my fantasy prince charming, then maybe it can work.
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Originally Posted by Erin Pavlina If I remember your reading correctly, wasn't I the second psychic who mentioned you'd meet someone in America? |
Yes, that’s true, exactly 7 years ago another psychic said that he would be from another country (along with other true things she said), just as you did. But now, I met a nice guy, we have a date next week, and I’m already thinking- but he's local- so probably he’s not the one. The thing is because Ive been around the world so much, local guys seem to ground me in a good way. I’m attracted to their belonging and simplicity.
ns123- thanks you too.
This guy is my intellectual equal- no problem there, but maybe not emotionally or spiritually.
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Originally Posted by ns123 I came to believe that no one could love me as much as he did. |
yes I can relate to that. With him he just sees me, faults included, and loves me the way I am.
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Originally Posted by ns123 If this current boyfriend is really your match, ask your guides for some signs. And open yourself up to receiving those signs. That may help. |
I’m not sure about "signs" for me. I realized they couldn’t be trusted. I’ve had unbelievable "signs" happen about different thingsin the past, and I realize that that they were just created by my thoughts.
I once had an ex-bf I was so heartbroken about. For months I would leave the house every morning and would bump into him almost everyday. In a cafe, on an empty beach, on top of a mountain at 4 am- it lasted until I let go of him (haven’t seen him for 12 years, were still in the same city). He was especially confused, b/c he saw them as "signs" too, but now I know that our thoughts just created those strange synchronicities.
Anyway- I’m open, my eyes are open, and I’m not rushing. Thank you both for the advice- and Erin thanks for the reading.
Ill give myself some more time without contact with him.