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Originally Posted by Rose of Cairo  Maybe it would only make sense to be with a guy who is into that too, but you are not doing it! What I notice is that you want to attract a musician in order to live your dream through him. You're waiting for the guy to realize your dream. Is he an instrument or what??
If you want to be touring and live that life all the time, then do it on your own. Touring doesn't necessarily mean being the girlfriend of the singer or the frontwoman of a famous band. There are many jobs in that field, all touring musicians need a whole staff, like technicians and whatnot. So why don't you do/learn/look for such a job?
You would have your dream, you would be touring and living for music - and meet a lot of musicians. Maybe once you do that, then you'll meet him. |
Well i realized that a few years ago. Thats when i checked into music school and realized there is no way i could afford it (at the time,anyway) and i couldnt even save up enough for it. I also would have to quit my job that i've been at for 17 years,and you dont make enough money in music to survive unless you are famous. But i did take piano lessons and voice lessons but i had to quit them because i got switched to different hours at work,and since then i had to sell my house because i couldnt afford it so now i'm renting an apartment by myself and i'm barely scraping by. I realize a lot of my problem is lack of money,and i'm working on that too (trying to find a part time job that fits with my current hours) and i'm going to try attracting money through LoA too. But you also have to realize,i'm going to be 36,and i have no skills,dont know anybody in the music business...even if i could save up the money for school,go to school,find a job,get good at what i'm doing,that would take YEARS! I'm not looking for a musician boyfriend to bring me into this life of music,i've just always been attracted to them. I wouldn't even care if he quit music to be with me,i dont even care if i find a guy who isnt even in a band! So im not looking to latch on to a guy to help ME better my situation or anything. Maybe i made it sound like i wanted a guy for that reason but i didnt mean it that way. I was just trying to explain why i'm attracted to those kinds of guys.