The others have said great things already, so I'm going to react just on two tiny details:
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Originally Posted by Rockchick26  I feel like nobody can accept me the way i am,which makes me want to hold on it even more. |
This is totally what I used to think too!
But then I understood that it wasn't about changing my very core - only a few habits. I already am perfect and everything's fine. I just have a few habits that are making me unhappy or prevent me from reaching my goals. So the only change that is required in order to get closer to what I want is a change in my thoughts, in my behavior, and my beliefs. That's not who I am at a deeper level! How we think, behave and what we believe is a choice, it's just habits. You can change that without negating who you are in your heart. It's just about finding a smarter way to reach your goals, not about giving yourself up.
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Originally Posted by Rockchick26 i want more than anything to be with a guy that is in a band because i could tour with them and live that life all the time. To be totally immersed in music and being around everyone else who loves it too,that is what i live for. So it would only make sense that i would be with a guy who is into that too. |
Maybe it would only make sense to be with a guy who is into that
too, but you are not doing it! What I notice is that you want to attract a musician in order to live your dream through him. You're waiting for the guy to realize your dream. Is he an instrument or what??
If you want to be touring and live that life all the time, then do it on your own. Touring doesn't necessarily mean being the girlfriend of the singer or the frontwoman of a famous band. There are many jobs in that field, all touring musicians need a whole staff, like technicians and whatnot. So why don't you do/learn/look for such a job?
You would have your dream, you would be touring and living for music - and meet a lot of musicians. Maybe once you do that, then you'll meet him.