Dana, I think there are two things going on here:
1. You want a relationship, you feel you're ready. But the new guys you're meeting aren't doing it for you. So you're thinking back on the wonderful aspects of the relationship you had and remembering the positive. He pops back into your life and you WANT to believe that this time things will be different.
2. But love isn't enough if you two are still going to have the same problems that caused a break up in the first place. Is he still emotionally immature? Has anything changed in the last 2 months? Of course he needs you. You're his rock, his strength. You two are probably missing the best parts of your old relationship. Very normal.
If I were you, I would consider strongly not to give up on getting a relationship with someone mature and who is your equal. If I remember your reading correctly, wasn't I the second psychic who mentioned you'd meet someone in America?
I can't tell you what to do here, but I think you're both wanting something to be true that isn't becuase you're wanting to go back to feeling loved.
Could that be true?
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